Saturday, October 24, 2009

I want the opinions of people in the teaching profession: is it inappropriate to wink at female students?

Its just this guy is really mean and strict with everyone else and only winks at me, and says things like he knows i like him and he goes on about how i've seen his nice side. is he wrong to say these things?

I want the opinions of people in the teaching profession: is it inappropriate to wink at female students?
im a student, but my teacher always winks at me and my best friend. he doesnt want what you think... hes just being friendly. dont talk to him about it, just whenever he winks at you, give him a dirty look. it works for me! lol





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Reply:In your situation, yes. He is going beyond the range of acceptable behavior for a teacher, because it is obvious from what he's said to you that his meaning in winking is too personal and too focused on you. On the other hand, there are some situations where an occasional, impersonal wink of understanding is OK, as long as it isn't limited to one student all the time.
Reply:your teacher want to *** you
Reply:I've found that the only time women object to come ons anywhere is under two circumstances. 1, they told the guy they have someone and the guy doesn't get the message, or 2, the guy isn't cute. If you feel uncomfortable, let him know. If he keeps on, tell him you're willing to do something about it.
Reply:looks like the teachers out of line..i would report him...
Reply:It depends on the wink. Some people wink and it is simply an indication of understanding, with no sexual connotation. Sometimes, though, a wink can be considered flirting. You are the best person to decide whether you think this professor's conduct is inappropriate. If you feel it's necessary, tell him to stop and/or report him to the administration.
Reply:Is he touching you? Is he asking you to stay after and do weird things? If not, he is just talking. He probably feels a connection to you that he doesn't feel to others. I would say that until it becomes an actual THING you should just be nice and move on. There is no need to make a stink about something that is most likely nothing.





Please keep in mind that if you report him or make a fuss over this you will ruin his career. Is he really doing something so wrong? This is a wink and a statement. Neither is wrong or illegal. Many people consider a wink akin to a wave and "hello" or something. Tread very carefully and consider all the implications of your actions.
Reply:Of course it is wrong for him to do that. Even if he wasn't your teacher, but even more so because of that. I think you should say something to him about it if you feel comfortable enough to do so. If not, I would go to the school office and tell someone there. Another good thing to do is to try and get him on type saying those things to you or at least try to get someone to hear him. That way it won't be your word against his. Now, yes, typing someone is tricky, because in some state it is against the law, but I feel that will only come in play if you have to go to court or something. But for sure, you should do something to get this to stop and soon.
Reply:In my case, it is VERY inappropriate! I'm a high school teacher, and the LAST person I wanna wink at is a high school chick!
Reply:I it completly wrong. The school board and Principal should be informed of his behaivor. If a teacher had done that to me I would tell everyone I could including my parents of course. Also having other students who see this bad behaivor should be used as witnesses in case the school board and Principal start to side together.
Reply:He is most def. is wrong to say these things...you should tell that you dont like the things that he says. If you dont like it and he keep doing it, you could report it. Its just how you feel about the situation


If this is karl winks, email me!!?

i have to explain. last year, i went to meridian middle school in idaho, and i was in the seventh grade. i was in the band, and i played the bass clarinet.(the thing that looked liked a strange sax.) i had a solo at the last concert.remeber me?

If this is karl winks, email me!!?
Do you honestly expect this person to find you here? For one, there are billions of webpages, and this "Karl Winks" could be on any of them. Secondly, this Karl needs to be looking on Yahoo answers, and looking for his name, which most people don't do. If you want to find this guy, go look in the phone book for his last name and I bet you'll find him.
Reply:it ain't


Do u think a guy likes u if he winks and smiles at u?

He thinks you're cute.





He may not want to pursue you, but he's defiantly interested.

Do u think a guy likes u if he winks and smiles at u?
yes, or he just like teasing you


it depends
Reply:hes just flirting with you because he thinks you cute
Reply:well maybe. he could be just messing about. it feels nice when someone does it though
Reply:I think he is interested in you at some level. Guys usually wink at girls to mean "Hi, what's up" to show them that they have noticed the girl. His next moves could be to ask you verbally how you are doing or somewhere along those lines. If you already know this guy, you can start talking to him by saying hi and asking about something simple, related to work, school or something similar. The point is to increase the interaction to a higher level each time. Maybe a quick for the first time, and bit more lengthy one the next. This is all, of course, if you like him too.
Reply:OF COURSE! I bet you really pretty to him!
Reply:if i smile a girl its to let them know im interested otherwise i'd just look the other way. i like to smile to get a reaction from the girl and to see if theres something there.. although half the time the girls just being polite :( lol x
Reply:NO
Reply:yeah he does, or hes just desperate
Reply:oh yeah.... definitely!!!!!
Reply:Yes, why else would he waste his time to do it.
Reply:You don't want to get involved with guys who wink.





It's like dating a big block of cheese.
Reply:He is interested... because he is flirting with you...
Reply:hello how dumb could you be of course he likes you

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Girls, do you find it attractive if a guy winks at you in passing?

If he did it with a friendly smile and didn't look cocky about it then yes :)

Girls, do you find it attractive if a guy winks at you in passing?
I think a few do.
Reply:Sure. Not attractive but It's kinda cute.
Reply:Yep. I think it's cute/
Reply:Only if I know the guy, or have seen him, think he's cute, and am interested. If the guy's over thirty and I've never seen him before, then I just think it's creepy.
Reply:no, it makes me wanna go up to him and smack him in the face, us girls aint cheap and easy and i dont care what you say, a girl deserves to be approached nicely not winked at..its like you guys are trying to sy that were deaf or need to be signaled by sign language
Reply:Makes me feel sexxyy
Reply:Im not a girl but i dont do that because that just looks creepy, lol.
Reply:yes
Reply:Not really..i think he's cheeky. I dont find it amusing.
Reply:I think it's really, really cheesy, but, hell, it would put a smile on my face!
Reply:lol Its kinda a cute %26amp; confident
Reply:It depends on the guy and the circumstances.
Reply:no, especially if he winks at every girl he finds attractive passing by. if he truly likes a girl he should have the courage 2 approach the girl, not wink. thats lamee. =)
Reply:Attractive? That's not the word coming to my mind. : )


Give me a gorgeous, sexy smile and I am happy.


That wink? Probably would make me walk faster in the opposite direction.
Reply:I tend to think the guy must have something in his eye....
Reply:not a wink but more of a head kinda nod lol and not if its at every attractive girl that goes past him
Reply:its cute
Reply:No, I would find it creepy. If a man went by me, in passing, and he just had a nice smile, I would think that would be attractive. But if he had a smirky kind of smile, it would also be creepy. You can tell the difference. :o)
Reply:from this guys stand point, i would never wink at a strange woman. i think it is demeaning and sexist.
Reply:no, i find it kinda creepy, i prefer a shy smile!
Reply:omygod it makes me want to grab his penis and p8ull it off. damm you winking boy.
Reply:Yea Duh!! but sometimes not!!
Reply:Not at all. A sexy smile is so much better.
Reply:Mmm, yeah.
Reply:NO!
Reply:yes
Reply:Yeah, it makes the guy seem mysterious %26amp; interesting, makes me want them more.
Reply:No, it scares me! =(
Reply:POSITUTELY!!!! at least you know what he is thinking. otherwise it's either he is looking cuz i have a latte mustache or my hair is all freaky from the wind.


with a wink, ya know all is ok. ;-)


I want the opinions of people in the teaching profession: is it inappropriate to wink at female students?

Its just this guy is really mean and strict with everyone else and only winks at me, and says things like he knows i like him and he goes on about how i've seen his nice side. is he wrong to say these things?

I want the opinions of people in the teaching profession: is it inappropriate to wink at female students?
im a student, but my teacher always winks at me and my best friend. he doesnt want what you think... hes just being friendly. dont talk to him about it, just whenever he winks at you, give him a dirty look. it works for me! lol





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Reply:In your situation, yes. He is going beyond the range of acceptable behavior for a teacher, because it is obvious from what he's said to you that his meaning in winking is too personal and too focused on you. On the other hand, there are some situations where an occasional, impersonal wink of understanding is OK, as long as it isn't limited to one student all the time.
Reply:your teacher want to fuk you
Reply:I've found that the only time women object to come ons anywhere is under two circumstances. 1, they told the guy they have someone and the guy doesn't get the message, or 2, the guy isn't cute. If you feel uncomfortable, let him know. If he keeps on, tell him you're willing to do something about it.
Reply:looks like the teachers out of line..i would report him...
Reply:It depends on the wink. Some people wink and it is simply an indication of understanding, with no sexual connotation. Sometimes, though, a wink can be considered flirting. You are the best person to decide whether you think this professor's conduct is inappropriate. If you feel it's necessary, tell him to stop and/or report him to the administration.
Reply:Is he touching you? Is he asking you to stay after and do weird things? If not, he is just talking. He probably feels a connection to you that he doesn't feel to others. I would say that until it becomes an actual THING you should just be nice and move on. There is no need to make a stink about something that is most likely nothing.





Please keep in mind that if you report him or make a fuss over this you will ruin his career. Is he really doing something so wrong? This is a wink and a statement. Neither is wrong or illegal. Many people consider a wink akin to a wave and "hello" or something. Tread very carefully and consider all the implications of your actions.
Reply:Of course it is wrong for him to do that. Even if he wasn't your teacher, but even more so because of that. I think you should say something to him about it if you feel comfortable enough to do so. If not, I would go to the school office and tell someone there. Another good thing to do is to try and get him on type saying those things to you or at least try to get someone to hear him. That way it won't be your word against his. Now, yes, typing someone is tricky, because in some state it is against the law, but I feel that will only come in play if you have to go to court or something. But for sure, you should do something to get this to stop and soon.
Reply:In my case, it is VERY inappropriate! I'm a high school teacher, and the LAST person I wanna wink at is a high school chick!
Reply:I it completly wrong. The school board and Principal should be informed of his behaivor. If a teacher had done that to me I would tell everyone I could including my parents of course. Also having other students who see this bad behaivor should be used as witnesses in case the school board and Principal start to side together.
Reply:He is most def. is wrong to say these things...you should tell that you dont like the things that he says. If you dont like it and he keep doing it, you could report it. Its just how you feel about the situation


If this is karl winks, email me!!?

i have to explain. last year, i went to meridian middle school in idaho, and i was in the seventh grade. i was in the band, and i played the bass clarinet.(the thing that looked liked a strange sax.) i had a solo at the last concert.remeber me?

If this is karl winks, email me!!?
Do you honestly expect this person to find you here? For one, there are billions of webpages, and this "Karl Winks" could be on any of them. Secondly, this Karl needs to be looking on Yahoo answers, and looking for his name, which most people don't do. If you want to find this guy, go look in the phone book for his last name and I bet you'll find him.
Reply:it ain't


Do u think a guy likes u if he winks and smiles at u?

He thinks you're cute.





He may not want to pursue you, but he's defiantly interested.

Do u think a guy likes u if he winks and smiles at u?
yes, or he just like teasing you


it depends
Reply:hes just flirting with you because he thinks you cute
Reply:well maybe. he could be just messing about. it feels nice when someone does it though
Reply:I think he is interested in you at some level. Guys usually wink at girls to mean "Hi, what's up" to show them that they have noticed the girl. His next moves could be to ask you verbally how you are doing or somewhere along those lines. If you already know this guy, you can start talking to him by saying hi and asking about something simple, related to work, school or something similar. The point is to increase the interaction to a higher level each time. Maybe a quick for the first time, and bit more lengthy one the next. This is all, of course, if you like him too.
Reply:OF COURSE! I bet you really pretty to him!
Reply:if i smile a girl its to let them know im interested otherwise i'd just look the other way. i like to smile to get a reaction from the girl and to see if theres something there.. although half the time the girls just being polite :( lol x
Reply:NO
Reply:yeah he does, or hes just desperate
Reply:oh yeah.... definitely!!!!!
Reply:Yes, why else would he waste his time to do it.
Reply:You don't want to get involved with guys who wink.





It's like dating a big block of cheese.
Reply:He is interested... because he is flirting with you...
Reply:hello how dumb could you be of course he likes you

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Girls, do you find it attractive if a guy winks at you in passing?

If he did it with a friendly smile and didn't look cocky about it then yes :)

Girls, do you find it attractive if a guy winks at you in passing?
I think a few do.
Reply:Sure. Not attractive but It's kinda cute.
Reply:Yep. I think it's cute/
Reply:Only if I know the guy, or have seen him, think he's cute, and am interested. If the guy's over thirty and I've never seen him before, then I just think it's creepy.
Reply:no, it makes me wanna go up to him and smack him in the face, us girls aint cheap and easy and i dont care what you say, a girl deserves to be approached nicely not winked at..its like you guys are trying to sy that were deaf or need to be signaled by sign language
Reply:Makes me feel sexxyy
Reply:Im not a girl but i dont do that because that just looks creepy, lol.
Reply:yes
Reply:Not really..i think he's cheeky. I dont find it amusing.
Reply:I think it's really, really cheesy, but, hell, it would put a smile on my face!
Reply:lol Its kinda a cute %26amp; confident
Reply:It depends on the guy and the circumstances.
Reply:no, especially if he winks at every girl he finds attractive passing by. if he truly likes a girl he should have the courage 2 approach the girl, not wink. thats lamee. =)
Reply:Attractive? That's not the word coming to my mind. : )


Give me a gorgeous, sexy smile and I am happy.


That wink? Probably would make me walk faster in the opposite direction.
Reply:I tend to think the guy must have something in his eye....
Reply:not a wink but more of a head kinda nod lol and not if its at every attractive girl that goes past him
Reply:its cute
Reply:No, I would find it creepy. If a man went by me, in passing, and he just had a nice smile, I would think that would be attractive. But if he had a smirky kind of smile, it would also be creepy. You can tell the difference. :o)
Reply:from this guys stand point, i would never wink at a strange woman. i think it is demeaning and sexist.
Reply:no, i find it kinda creepy, i prefer a shy smile!
Reply:omygod it makes me want to grab his penis and p8ull it off. damm you winking boy.
Reply:Yea Duh!! but sometimes not!!
Reply:Not at all. A sexy smile is so much better.
Reply:Mmm, yeah.
Reply:NO!
Reply:yes
Reply:Yeah, it makes the guy seem mysterious %26amp; interesting, makes me want them more.
Reply:No, it scares me! =(
Reply:POSITUTELY!!!! at least you know what he is thinking. otherwise it's either he is looking cuz i have a latte mustache or my hair is all freaky from the wind.


with a wink, ya know all is ok. ;-)


If you are at a bar and a girl winks at you...?

is it because she's got something in her eye, or the lights are too bright, or is she checking you out?





how can you tell the difference?

If you are at a bar and a girl winks at you...?
the best way to tell the difference is by going and talking to her m8
Reply:if she has been lookin at u for awhile shes prob checking you out.





but if ur still not sure, casually watch her and see if she cont. to look at u or if she winks again.





or jus go talk to her, the worse thing she could do is say no.
Reply:I ask her if she has something in her eye or on her mind,.....yes I am bold.....but after a good laugh I leave it at that!!!! I have a bf ffs!!! But thanks for asking....are you going to tell him what I said...(LOL~!!!!)





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Reply:shes probably a drunk prostitute.


she wants you to buy her drinks then take her back to your house.





you can do better.


trust me.
Reply:Wink back and say Hello if she is interested she'll give you a sign or just straight out flirt with you.
Reply:IF she has an adam's apple, she's not a girl.
Reply:She likes you lol! Especially if the wink is aimed at you! ;-)
Reply:you go chat with her see what she says, i say go for it, and get laid!!!!!!


When a boy winks at you; it is flirting right?

Okay so i went to this park today and i was just walking with my friend and than me and this guy made eye contact so he winked at me; was that flirting?


and than after a while i saw him again but then he was like trying to flirt with my friend he said something to her and smiled but my friend ignored him but there were alot of girls there.. if he was flirting with "my" friend it could mean something right?


does he like me or is he just a flirty guy and likes every pretty girl he sees?

When a boy winks at you; it is flirting right?
i think he is just a flirty guy how likes flirting with any girl he meets..


A man who winks is insincere, what of a man who rubs his palms together.?

Body language should not be taken out of context, nor can it be interpeted as always meaning the same thing. In other words a wink can indicate insincerity in some situations, but not in all and definitely not for all people.

A man who winks is insincere, what of a man who rubs his palms together.?
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Reply:His hands are dirty.
Reply:His hands are cold?
Reply:Rubbing of the palms can mean different things. It can mean that a person is anticipating making some kind of gain through trickery or cunning. Rubbing the palms in this case is an effort to remove the sweat from the hands.This kind of person is known as a FOREFLUSHER. It also could just mean that the hands are cold or sweaty.
Reply:Rubbing the Palms together is one of the 108 "Mudraas" in Yogic exercise.It is called "Kara Dhala Kara Brishta"

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Can winking be a friendly sign, or it's just about flirting?

For instance: A guy is winking at me. Is it possible that he is doing it with friendly intensions?

Can winking be a friendly sign, or it's just about flirting?
If a guy winks at you, he intends to get in to your pants.
Reply:a wink is a wink plain and simple stop trying to read more into it than is there





a guy winking means nothing





it doesnt mean hes flirting although it can but not in most cases





most likely was him being friendly or acknowledging something you just said to him





heres an example


my husband works with a guy whom we are friends with he winks all the time. its a signal for him often meaning he needs to ask for something or agrees with something just said or as a way of silently agreeing. hes not flirting with me just being friendly








stop trying to read more into things all your doing is setting your self up to get hurt
Reply:Personally, I usually wink in intent on flirting. But under certain conditions winking can be completely harmless.
Reply:It's most likely mild Tourette's. Don't flatter yourself cupcake.
Reply:Yes, but sadly it's friendly intensions of the one night nature.
Reply:It can go either way, really. Also, remember that just because a guy flirts with you doesn't necessarily mean that social contact with him will end in sex or dating. ;)
Reply:yes it can just be a friendly sign but it depends how it is interpreted.
Reply:It's flirting and not in good taste.
Reply:i wink at everyone for many reasons... its kinda a connection
Reply:Perhaps he has a twitch.


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I had the same problem. it turns out that they have a program that is set up that will randomly send you winks from non-existent people, so that you have this hope that you will meet someone. that happened to me and as soon as i stopped my subscription, i got a ton of emails from peopel that wanted to meet me.


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Reply:Well written.Wonderful work.
Reply:try saying that 5 times fast.
Reply:wonderfully written

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Had Woozy Winks become Plastic Man's sidekick by August of 1942?

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Had Woozy Winks become Plastic Man's sidekick by August of 1942?
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Reply:I don't know, ask him.


When someone winks at you what does that mean?

lol, i think that would scare me too,





it depends on if you know this person or not,





its normally an expression to say you look nice,





so wink wink , lol

When someone winks at you what does that mean?
Maybe the old man is just try to adjust his vision, old people can't see very near- they are far sighted. But if they do it at a distance and you can still see the wink - then you better stop giving wrong signals - cos you're starting at them also!!
Reply:I think it's an inclusion thing - you wink to let someone in on the joke you're about to play out, you wink to reassure someone, you wink if you like someone.





As for the old guys...does this often happen..?
Reply:I think it can mean one of two things- either the person is flirting or that they really like you, but not necessarily in a romantic way.
Reply:It means they're creepy.


Unless they're old. Then they're just being cute.
Reply:Depends on the wink. Sometimes it's a your cute thing, then there's the I want you thing~!
Reply:it can be a flirt,or just saying he thinks your cute and sexy looking,a friendly jester,letting you know he noticed you..
Reply:It could mean a million thing with one beig that he thinks your cute. Why not ask him if you really want to know.
Reply:nothing
Reply:They are teasing you or they have a twitch in their eye. :)
Reply:"hey, how's it goin'?"
Reply:That maybe they have something in their eye.
Reply:1. Somethings in their eye


2. they like you





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Reply:when old guys do it, grab a shotgun
Reply:they're diggin you!
Reply:either they are hitting on me, or they think know something


Do u think guys likes u if he winks and smiles at u?

it is a way of flirting, so either he likes you or he is having facial spasms.


This guy winks when I go through the drive through.?

I've gone through this drive through food place twice. The same guy's been there. After he hands me my stuff he winks and smiles. The first time he winked and smiled and said take care. The second time he just winked. Do you think it's just a friendly gesture. Or do you think he might think I'm cute?

This guy winks when I go through the drive through.?
he digs you, if he didnt he wouldnt wink
Reply:it may very well be both. i wouldnt think about it much though if something like that happened to me.
Reply:someone who is constantly winking,means they could be or are liars.Someone who crosses their arms when talking has something to hided.Look up body gestures.
Reply:The question shouldn't be ... does he think you're cute... because you already know if you are or aren't. The question should be... does he have something stuck in his eye... because guys only wink if we want you to notice us winking...or if we have something stuck in our eye. SOOOOO... wink back... or slip him your phone number with your money next time. If he doesn't call.... find a new place to get food! haha good luck.
Reply:he likes your for sure, give him your number next time
Reply:wink back
Reply:I would think that he thought that you were cute but maybe it was just a nice gesture...
Reply:Maybe he just has an eye tic and can't help it!
Reply:You could if you like him ask him if he has anything in his eye. lol Or blow him a kiss

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When someone winks at you.....?

What's your reaction

When someone winks at you.....?
I lick my lips. JOKES!


Naa, depends whos doing it.
Reply:Only one person ever winked at me that I can remember, and it was a guy, and my reaction was to beat him severely.
Reply:Smile back.
Reply:stare at them blankly
Reply:Smile at them
Reply:A great big smile.
Reply:walk the other way and don't look back
Reply:Wink back. ;)
Reply:I look behind me...cause there has GOT to be someone else there!
Reply:depends on who it is. sometimes butterflies, sometimes shock, sometimes revulsion
Reply:i just smile back or sometimes i'm a little shy. XD
Reply:That person is a jerk, trying to pick me up.


Do girls like it wen a guy winks at her and tht other stuff?

winking yeah ;)...wats that other stuff??

Do girls like it wen a guy winks at her and tht other stuff?
Winking is sweet.Now what is the other stuff you are asking about?
Reply:Don't wink. Its cheesy and stupid.


I'd be turned off


If a 40 yr old married man winks at a 40 year old married woman he has known for a short time, is he flirting?

From my limited experience, there are several "levels" of flirting. From actions as seemingly insignificant as the accidental brush of an elbow, to the obvious pick-up line. It's all a matter of intention. Men and women tend to percieve matters of communication differently, therefor the wink in question could be just a simple acknowledgement of attraction, or an invitation to something more...

If a 40 yr old married man winks at a 40 year old married woman he has known for a short time, is he flirting?
No, he is just being friendly in a flirty kind of way. Older people (30+) don't play the same relationship games that we used to when we were 15-25.
Reply:Was there something he said just before the wink? Sometimes people will do that to signify an inside joke or a dead-pan one-liner.
Reply:I would say yes. There are very few circumstances in which winking at someone would not be flirting, such as if he's telling a joke.
Reply:Either that or he's got something in his eye.
Reply:well there can a actraction between both of them but their both diong wrong cause the 40 year old wonmen knows that he ids married and she still being there.
Reply:dust in his eye, or begining of cataracts, latter is a joke!

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Msn Winks problem?

Hi, i have a question regarding the msn winks. Okay heres the problem: Whenever i play a wink on my computer the wink shows up but the sound on the winks doesn't work. What's the problem behind this? I know theres no problem with my speakers, sound chip, or anything; because i can hear everything else besides my winks on my computer...so please help and thanyou very much

Msn Winks problem?
I'm to lazy to check this out.


try deleting-Man messenger and reinstalling it make sure you download the right version.


winks might be a wave file or something else you don't have unchecked in volume control.go to sounds in the control panel and click on sounds and see if anything besides microphone is checked
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The Winks on MSN tells me I need Flash Player. My computer won't let me install it.Why can't I install it?

When I click on download it downloads, but the option to install doesn't come up. It says that when the Flash Player is done installing you will see the Wink in the box on the right. All I see is a little square with no picture at all??


I've tried changing my settings, I've tried turning off the pop up blocker?? I've even disabled my Anti-Virus. Why can't I install it??

The Winks on MSN tells me I need Flash Player. My computer won't let me install it.Why can't I install it?
Flash payer can be a real pain to install/download...


do a search for the complete version or contact support...


I know they have it hidden on there site..why i dont know...
Reply:http://www.macromedia.com/software/flash...


DOWNLOAD IT FROM THERE


IT SHOULD WORK IF U CLOSE UR MSN


AND OTHER PROGRAMS


JUST LEAVE THE INSTALLATION OPEN
Reply:If you are at work there is probably a fire wall set up to keep you from down loading bad stuff.





If you have IT support give them a call.


My husband has low libido but very flirtatous with other women. He often winks and emails old girfriends,,,?

I am so jeolous and mistrusting. It hurts me so much. Why does he do this? We have been married for 27 years and have not had sex in 8 years. He claims he can't get an erection anymore but will not take viagra and anything like it. What do you think?

My husband has low libido but very flirtatous with other women. He often winks and emails old girfriends,,,?
I can't explain the long period without sex as I haven't experienced it, but men as a generalisation seem to get bored when in long term relationships like this - I experience it myself occasionally, even though I still love my partner.





When someone's been in a relationship that long, it's easy to take it for granted and there is a certain thrill in being accepted by other women that is very powerful and leads some into being unfaithful, but that doesn't mean he's cheating on you, he might just feel the need to be found attractive or acceptable again.





Unfortunately, people forget too easily how things like this can hurt other people and how they can escalate into other things. I don't judge him because I don't know him, but he needs to be pointed in the right direction in order to save his marriage before it's too late.
Reply:dam after 8 yrs i would buy stock in ever ready and make like that bunny!!! I think he is just full of crap!
Reply:He is either cheating on you and that's why he doesn't need sex with you.... or he's impotent and trying to prove his manliness with women by flirting.





In either case, it's not healthy for you and you need some counseling. He needs to seek medical help to deal with it if he is impotent.





My ex was a 2 second wonder and for 6 years he got off and I didn't. I was so frustrated and he wouldn't seek help because it bothered him more to tell a doctor in confidence what his problem was than it bothered him that he was worthless in bed with his wife!





I wish I'd divorced him a lot earlier and I was way too forgiving.





Best wishes,





Sue
Reply:I don't think it's him!
Reply:Why do people automatically assume the worst? One, the man may be finding out why he still loves you. I mean flirting with people is not really all that bad when you think about it, my bf does it all the time, and so do I, but neither of us would ever cheat on the other, it is just fun to imagine, and then we try think about what it would be like without the other and it just cannot even be imagined. I mean 8 years, c'mon, you have been married 27 years, which I would guess to mean you both are around 50. At this time men are in serious dangerous water, erectile dysfunction is a serious problem and should be monitored by a doctor, there is nothing to be ashamed about it happens to a lot of people. Maybe he feels since he is not the same man you married then he is not a man anymore, just remind him that he is and there is nothing in this world that could ever change that. Him flirting around may be his way of trying to find a cure, and like most men, taking something to make them feel manly again just will NOT cut it. Get some information about it and show him that it is not all that uncommon and many men are faced with the same as him. I applaud you for sticking by him in this tough time. Just before you jump to conclusions, try to see his side of the situation. I mean that really is ALOT for any man to deal with.
Reply:Personally...I think he's sleeping around! give me a break why does he take Viagra? if you haven't had sex in 8 years???


Sorry I'm so not buying that. And I don't understand why you let him flirt and wink? that's so disrespectful to you? You need to have a serious talk with him and get to the bottom of his behavior issues.
Reply:I think that he is just tired of you. If I were you I would leave him ASAP and find someone that wants you.
Reply:He is full of it.
Reply:maybe he is doing what has crossed ur mind a dozen times. u decide what u want to do with ur marriage for as long as 27 years go. but i wish u the best because i don't know how u went that long in the first place. if u believe in GOD, than u need to take it to him in prayer. BE BLESSED.
Reply:he may be making up for ED
Reply:something is not right here....Is he intimate with you in other ways? If not, I'd be sitting down and having a serious talk with him.
Reply:You been married 27 years and eight years without sex… believe it or not I've known some other couples in the same situation. You're not necessarily alone. Are those other guys cheating ….No they have a serious loss of libido.





One guy did smoke pot… a lot…. that's known to take the wood right out of your woody, with heavy continuous use. Others did not do anything that should stop them. But sex is a very visual thing and men are extremely visual…. that would be why the porn industry is so huge. The fact that he's e-mailing old girlfriends may just be his attempt to get back what he lost. He may think that this loose association with them might bring back the much higher libido he had…. not likely that's going to work. While he'd like this circus to go on he’s just not going to be able to get the tent pole up





The first spark in a guy is visual…. so the fact that he is flirting with other girls shows he still has interest and has not switched to the other side. I think some of the people that jumped to the conclusion, up here, say he's cheating …..has missed some huge facts. You been married 27 years, he's older than that obviously, at his age is libido's going to decline anyway.





Men at this age have been wrestling with ways to try to keep up… literally….. with their partners. Viagra and other medications in the same chemical arena like Levitra and Cialis have worked for millions of men … certainly some without their partners knowing they take it. But all require one thing ….desire. You can take any one of these pills and not get an erection at all. Essentially it provides the chemical necessary to “maintain” an erection. So if you take the medication and have a lot of desire…. you can hammer a nail into a 2 x 4.





Viagra was actually discovered completely by accident…. they were trying to make a heart medication but found out the test individuals were complaining of a unique side effect.





It sounds like the problem with your husband is what affects many …..the lack of desire. Unfortunately he sounds a bit too macho and a bit too proud to go to Viagra and try it. It would probably help.





There are like 30 new drugs being developed for ED. one interesting you might want to keep your eye on is Code name TP 141…. the pharmacy name will be Bremelanotide. This drug still has years of testing before being available… the researcher on this one was trying to find a medication that would give you a tan….. unfortunately he got a hard on instead. But get this…. it seems to actually create desire !! It's being tested for men and women and having a lot of success. It's being tested with Viagra at the same time…. and it's not a pill but a nasal spray….. Wow….





So desire drugs are coming… and for both sexes.








Summary ..I don't think he's cheating I think he's out of juice. Give him a little pressure that you really what him to try some of these ED medications… see a doctor… don't be ashamed. If that doesn't work…. you might want to check out the guy you got mowing the lawn, sweaty, hot, in his 20s…… I'm sure he would deftly rise to the occasion





Mark


Book Author - GirlsTellAll
Reply:hes getting it elsewhere! divorce!
Reply:I think he's lying and he's bored. Just being honest...sorry
Reply:Sounds fishy to me!
Reply:He is not love with u. that is the reason he is not showing interest with u for sex. better to find a gud soul
Reply:You have'nt had sex in 8 years! (poor baby!)
Reply:It sounds like he's may just be trying to keep up the appearance of being a normal sexually active male, when he isn't. He's talking the talk, but not walking the walk. If I were you, I would get him some Viagra, and mix it up in something so he doesn't know he's taken it. Then he'll be real "happy" when he finds he's gotten some excitement back.
Reply:well at least u know if he cheats on u then u know it wont last long..lol sorry couldnt help it. but seriosly its not right that he flirts with other ppl omg u havent had sex in 8 yrs and ur still around and havent cheated..no way.
Reply:This is a bad situation. I am sorry to tell you, but it sounds as though this man is cheating. Men have a fairly constant desire which I'm sure would still be presten even with E.D. 8 years without is just not possible without something major being wrong.
Reply:he sounds like a jerk.. if he won't keep up his end then at least he should allow you to have a special friend.
Reply:I would talk with him about it in a nice manner. Maybe there is something that has changed which you could ask him about which could be changed to again stimulate him so he doesnt feel the need to go outside of the marriage for stimuli. Maybe a fresh hair style, makeover etc could work, not to say he does not need to do his part but eight years, thats pretty bad and I don't believe the libido thing at all.
Reply:8 years with out sex time to have a affair .. some thing is wrong
Reply:Nancy, I just don't know what to say..you floored me with your question. Your husband's flirting is proably trying to convince he's still a "man", but I can understand why this hurts you so terribly. Can you talk to him?





He needs to realize that you need that time and attention that he's giving these women. Doing without sex is one thing, but having to watch him flirt outragously with others is another. Does he show you any affection? Kissing, cuddling, holding your hand-or is it nothing. I would be jealous too, and so hurt.





Will he go to the doctor? Or his problem not a talkable subject. Counseling is needed, if he doesn't see how he's hurting you. I am so very sorry, after 27 years. I wish I could give you a hug. Please try to talk to him, and make him realize what he is doing to you and your marriage. Ask him "how would you feel if I did the things you were doing". I bet he wouldn't like it.





Nancy, please take care, and God only knows I wish I had the right answer for you. A magic cure....Praying for sure..
Reply:He has a girlfriend. Wise up!
Reply:Does he have any medical conditions or does he take any medications that my cause erectile disfunction? If not, why have you waited around for 8 years? Sounds like he may be getting it somewhere else.
Reply:Your husband sounds like a player to me. You have the right to be suspicious. But if he is cheating don't divorce him or kill him or anything, just out live him. Start eating healthy, go to the gym, get yourself all fixed up and go out and party like you were in your 20s. And rub it all in your husbands face. Also maybe you could e-mail your "ex boy friends" just set up different e-mail accounts and e-mail yourself ; )


Msn winks????????

once i have downloaded a msn wink where do i have to save it to enable me to use it?

Msn winks????????
Can you get them free?
Reply:Read.
Reply:not sure what you are saying


but click where it is winking %26amp; that will bring it up on the screen %26amp; then you sign in %26amp; winking can be saying someone is trying to talk to you as well


thats what happens on mine in australia


hope i helped in some way
Reply:it automatically saves on mine

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Poll: Winks? Or both eyelashes batting at the same time?

flirt, flirt, flirt..

Poll: Winks? Or both eyelashes batting at the same time?
Winks
Reply:winks
Reply:Winks.


That's if you can wink with one eye.


If a girl whom I just met winks at me, does it mean anything? I am 25 and the girl is 24.?

It could mean she likes you....or...she could have a tick in her eye.

If a girl whom I just met winks at me, does it mean anything? I am 25 and the girl is 24.?
A fruit fly was in her eye.
Reply:yes, it means that she thinks you are cute and worthy of her time....
Reply:its called flirting.





nice isn't it?
Reply:she is flirting with you Hun lol you need to learn about how girls flirt cus if you didn't get that hint you are in some deep trouble here bud lol





go and say "hey you wanna go fro a bite to eat sometime my treat"





im betting she will take you up on your offer
Reply:lol are you the shy type? it's possible she has a thing for you talk to her won't hurt. i'd wink at ya anytime ;)
Reply:a warm and friendly gesture with a touch of flirtation...how can you be 25 and still wondering what grown people "mean" by things...you should have gotten over that stage by the end of high school!
Reply:She may like you or she may have just got something in her eye. You should ask her.
Reply:she might want to date u
Reply:She has an eye infection.
Reply:Perhaps she has a styx or an eye twitch? :)





Seriously, it's posssible that it does mean something, but if even "a kiss is just a kiss, a smile is just a smile," as the old song lyrices go, then a wink may be just a wink. If you're attracted to this girl, it might be worth getting to know her better to find out... :)
Reply:Damn you horny bastard, did you ever think maybe she had something in her eye?





dv
Reply:either she has something in her eye, she's winking at the guy behind you, she got a stray thought with the other hemisphere of her brain, she couldn't wave because she's paralyzed in the neck and arms, She's a tease, She likes you or she wants your body. No one can know the answer but her. Ask her out.
Reply:wink at you? lol, id say she likes you
Reply:She just has allergies.
Reply:Either she likes you or has something in her eye.
Reply:maybe she thinks you are attractive and likes you---you are an adult---ask her :)
Reply:Most people our age know that a wink is flirtation. Therefore-she is flirting with you.
Reply:Hmm.. maybe you just need to take a risk and go up to her and start talking to her and than when you feel comfortable with her than ask her if the "wink" meant anything.
Reply:shes obviously into you..make a move and see what happens!
Reply:Stop spitting when you talk.
Reply:not really just wink back and let her make the first move
Reply:Definately nothing depending on the way she winked.
Reply:It possibly could but some people are just winkers. They even wink at their pets.


What is the meant when 1 person winks an eye an other person ??

I only use winks when I'm letting someone in on a joke or something funny...

What is the meant when 1 person winks an eye an other person ??
It can mean that they are "playing"...the game.





Joking around....just having fun!





Why do you ask?
Reply:It can have quite a variety of meanings.


Probably most often, it means that there is a 3rd person or more, in the setting and the one winking at you is 'having the others on' [meaning he is fooling them], but he is not meaning to fool you.


Other times, if he is doing most of the listening in the conversation, it means that someone else, who is doing most of the speaking, is speaking just 'poppycock', or doesn't know what he is talking about.





But it can mean many other things, also.


It all depends on the precise setting one is in.


Sometimes, one will simply wink another as he is just passing by.


In that case, it is simply a token of good will - a friendly gesture.





Other times, if two people don't know each other and one is a girl and the other a guy, one might wink at the other as a sign of 'sexual interest'.





So, it can have many meanings, depending on the precise setting.
Reply:interest?!..........








bow.......................
Reply:It can mean many things, from a shared secret to attraction to an indication that you are joking.
Reply:hmm...it means that it winked an eye... ;)
Reply:Well, if he only has one eye, than I'd say he's just blinking.





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Reply:it could mean a plethora of things
Reply:or they just r bein nice.


kelsey q.


This new guy in the office always *winks* at me. What's wrong with him?

Everytime I look at him, he always smiles and winks at me. He does it all the time. He never talks to me and never does any other kind of expressions. He just winks, basically.





Is there anything wrong with his eyes or something?





I mean really.., I find it a little bit annoying. He's cute though.





Btw, I just smile a little cuz i find him weird.


Isn't he?

This new guy in the office always *winks* at me. What's wrong with him?
He likes you duh.
Reply:he's just trying to flirt with you the wrong way!
Reply:He has crap in his eye
Reply:he's not weird that just means he likes you and maybe he's too shy to talk to you
Reply:ya liddle slyboots
Reply:He probably finds you sexually attractive. Have you ever spoken to him? Does he ever start conversations with him? If you don't want to date him ignore him. Stop smiling at him and he'll probably go away.
Reply:thunder_kok says wink wink
Reply:lol...lol...lol... no ...hes not wierd... hes planning his game like the lead wolf in the wolf pack... You r his prey .. he will eat you.... he eats anything.... hes not choosy!!! lol...lol...lol... Then he shares his meal w/ the pack in the still of the night around the campfire!! Did u really do that?? Haven't you ever heard .. don't mess w co workers?
Reply:Maybe he saw your question about which eye you wink with and is showing you his preference.
Reply:Nothing's wrong. He just likes you and is probably too afraid to approach you, yet.
Reply:He sounds sweet, but watch out because HE'S MARRIED!





Cheers
Reply:probably doesnt know how to start a conversation with him. give the a chance instead of thinking he's weird, ask him to lunch
Reply:Mayb u'r 2attractive 2him. He likes u that y he's flirting with u.
Reply:He probably likes you but is being subtle about it. Not all guys are going to throw themselves at a woman, even one as attractive as you are. If you find him attractive, flirt back.
Reply:I think it's kind of weird that he hasn't talked to you or anything. Guys who wink are usually quite forward and aren't normally apprehensive when it comes to talking to people they are attracted to.





If you find his constant winking uncomfortable or somewhat sleazy, just stop smiling. If you're attracted to his cuteness, keep up the smiling, and he'll make a move if he's really interested.





PS: there is a possibility that something could be wrong with his eye and he's just smiling, but i doubt it.
Reply:Winking at coworkers is a very obnoxious habit. Either stop smiling back so he gets the message, or be more upfront and suggest that his winking all the time makes you wonder what he means by it.
Reply:No you are a real cute girl and he is jest letting you know that he likes you
Reply:That's sorta weird. I dunno. I try to keep my flirting around the office at a minimum.





I've yet to meet a woman at work who's worth losing my job over. It's just sorta tactless.





And yeah... if you're gonna do the winky thing, at least have the balls to say something.
Reply:well just maybe it could be that he likes you
Reply:he wants u girl
Reply:He is so captured by your amazing beauty, you leave him speechless!!
Reply:You smile at him when he winks... you do the math.
Reply:yeah that does sounds a bit odd. you'd think he would spoken to you by now. Perhaps, he has a strange sense of humor!
Reply:maybe he does have a problem, but, maybe hes just really into you, he could really think that you are the most beautiful women he's ever met!
Reply:he likes u jaan %26amp; i think he is asian %26amp; nice guy.
Reply:I think......................................
Reply:He's being friendly, maybe he likes you.





On another note, you say he winks every time he looks at you and then you ask if there's something wrong with his eye. Are you trying to be cute or are you just that dumb?
Reply:he could have something stuck in his eye or he could be married and his wife connects a small camera to his clothes and one of those collars that they use to train dogs so everytime he smiles at you she's at home waiting to zap him. (the winking is just an after effect of the zap). LOL. on a serious note that just might be his thing that he does which is weird but i think it's harmless. strike up small conversation with him and see if he still winks at you later on
Reply:hes a retard
Reply:i think he has a crush on you tha's why is winking at you
Reply:Maybe the sun shines in his window just right to hit his eye. Just the one eye.





Maybe everytime you walk by his office you create a little breeze and blow dust into his eye..

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When a guy holds the door and winks at me,why is this?

maybe he thinks you're too dumb to open the door yourself

When a guy holds the door and winks at me,why is this?
HE IS A FLIRT BEWARE THEY ARE EVERYWHERE just kidding he is just flirting with you hopein u will give him your number or ask him out or he just tryin to be nice
Reply:I guess it can mean a variety of things....maybe he was just trying to be nice.
Reply:he opens doors and winks at all the girls.
Reply:Are you in a wheelchair?
Reply:It's called flirting - ENJOY!


Do winks and whistles tickle your ego?

Yep.....They warm my cockles too.

Do winks and whistles tickle your ego?
Aw.....thanks for the best answer. I'm starting to feel all warm and tingly. Report Abuse

Reply:Nah... I like to keep my ego in check...





It takes an awful lot to tickle it!
Reply:a wink does, a whistle just irritates me
Reply:Yes.
Reply:Of course. I act like I didnt notice, or that i am annoyed, but the truth is it makes me smile a little knowing that some random guy things I look good
Reply:No, I take it as a nice gesture, that's all.
Reply:all the time,


my ego loves attention


%26amp; wakes me up when it happens !!
Reply:they scare me,


but a smiles different- makes you feel like if they aren't really a stalker.
Reply:Nope a great smile does the trick beautifully!
Reply:no matter what anyone says, all women want to feel beautiful and desired.... the gross gestures and obscene language can go, but a wink or a polite whistle make you feel pretty good.
Reply:No. Sorry.
Reply:Sure lets go with that.
Reply:only long enough for me to notice that they are directed somewhere else
Reply:I wuz just thinking that bout the two humped dromedary beast, so I wink and I whistle at it......All I get is snort and spit.
Reply:only from girls :D
Reply:Not particulary,,no.
Reply:Yes.. makes me feel..... horny!!!


lol..............
Reply:yes... from the right person, they do.
Reply:They sure do. But, alas, they are fewer and farther between.
Reply:When ever I whistle, it tickles my upper lip, but I think my mustache is the reason why. And ever so often my eye lash tickles when I wink.

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Do you like it when a guy winks at you from across the room?

It flatters me so I wink back. *wink*

Do you like it when a guy winks at you from across the room?
No I don't
Reply:"I'm getting the hell out of here!!"
Reply:only if he's hot =)
Reply:Doesn't happen much cuz I'm old.





So it's a loooot more fun now than 25 years ago...
Reply:Depends on who it is. :)
Reply:no i don't
Reply:At my age, I am flattered beyond words.
Reply:No he should be all up in your face and wink....LOL
Reply:When I was a girl I did. Now that I'm a man, not much.
Reply:hell yes
Reply:If a guy winks at me from across the room, it registers on my Gay-Dar and I amusedly take it in stride without returning the unspoken flirt. Hot damn, I'm sexy!
Reply:i wouldn't even see it. i don't wear my gasses when i go to a bar or any such place
Reply:i pretend i didn't see him do it
Reply:duh who doesn't?! :)
Reply:No, only if he's really hot!
Reply:yeah it pretty flattering! but id prefer good looking guys to do it ! lol
Reply:Only if my husband did not see him! LOL!!!
Reply:Only when it's my hubby
Reply:Probably don't have on my glasses and cannot see across the room.


Do girls like it wen a guy winks at her and tht other stuff?

winking yeah ;)...wats that other stuff??

Do girls like it wen a guy winks at her and tht other stuff?
Winking is sweet.Now what is the other stuff you are asking about?
Reply:Don't wink. Its cheesy and stupid.


I'd be turned off


If a 40 yr old married man winks at a 40 year old married woman he has known for a short time, is he flirting?

From my limited experience, there are several "levels" of flirting. From actions as seemingly insignificant as the accidental brush of an elbow, to the obvious pick-up line. It's all a matter of intention. Men and women tend to percieve matters of communication differently, therefor the wink in question could be just a simple acknowledgement of attraction, or an invitation to something more...

If a 40 yr old married man winks at a 40 year old married woman he has known for a short time, is he flirting?
No, he is just being friendly in a flirty kind of way. Older people (30+) don't play the same relationship games that we used to when we were 15-25.
Reply:Was there something he said just before the wink? Sometimes people will do that to signify an inside joke or a dead-pan one-liner.
Reply:I would say yes. There are very few circumstances in which winking at someone would not be flirting, such as if he's telling a joke.
Reply:Either that or he's got something in his eye.
Reply:well there can a actraction between both of them but their both diong wrong cause the 40 year old wonmen knows that he ids married and she still being there.
Reply:dust in his eye, or begining of cataracts, latter is a joke!


Msn Winks problem?

Hi, i have a question regarding the msn winks. Okay heres the problem: Whenever i play a wink on my computer the wink shows up but the sound on the winks doesn't work. What's the problem behind this? I know theres no problem with my speakers, sound chip, or anything; because i can hear everything else besides my winks on my computer...so please help and thanyou very much

Msn Winks problem?
I'm to lazy to check this out.


try deleting-Man messenger and reinstalling it make sure you download the right version.


winks might be a wave file or something else you don't have unchecked in volume control.go to sounds in the control panel and click on sounds and see if anything besides microphone is checked
Reply:thanks... Report Abuse


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The Winks on MSN tells me I need Flash Player. My computer won't let me install it.Why can't I install it?

When I click on download it downloads, but the option to install doesn't come up. It says that when the Flash Player is done installing you will see the Wink in the box on the right. All I see is a little square with no picture at all??


I've tried changing my settings, I've tried turning off the pop up blocker?? I've even disabled my Anti-Virus. Why can't I install it??

The Winks on MSN tells me I need Flash Player. My computer won't let me install it.Why can't I install it?
Flash payer can be a real pain to install/download...


do a search for the complete version or contact support...


I know they have it hidden on there site..why i dont know...
Reply:http://www.macromedia.com/software/flash...


DOWNLOAD IT FROM THERE


IT SHOULD WORK IF U CLOSE UR MSN


AND OTHER PROGRAMS


JUST LEAVE THE INSTALLATION OPEN
Reply:If you are at work there is probably a fire wall set up to keep you from down loading bad stuff.





If you have IT support give them a call.


My husband has low libido but very flirtatous with other women. He often winks and emails old girfriends,,,?

I am so jeolous and mistrusting. It hurts me so much. Why does he do this? We have been married for 27 years and have not had sex in 8 years. He claims he can't get an erection anymore but will not take viagra and anything like it. What do you think?

My husband has low libido but very flirtatous with other women. He often winks and emails old girfriends,,,?
I can't explain the long period without sex as I haven't experienced it, but men as a generalisation seem to get bored when in long term relationships like this - I experience it myself occasionally, even though I still love my partner.





When someone's been in a relationship that long, it's easy to take it for granted and there is a certain thrill in being accepted by other women that is very powerful and leads some into being unfaithful, but that doesn't mean he's cheating on you, he might just feel the need to be found attractive or acceptable again.





Unfortunately, people forget too easily how things like this can hurt other people and how they can escalate into other things. I don't judge him because I don't know him, but he needs to be pointed in the right direction in order to save his marriage before it's too late.
Reply:dam after 8 yrs i would buy stock in ever ready and make like that bunny!!! I think he is just full of crap!
Reply:He is either cheating on you and that's why he doesn't need sex with you.... or he's impotent and trying to prove his manliness with women by flirting.





In either case, it's not healthy for you and you need some counseling. He needs to seek medical help to deal with it if he is impotent.





My ex was a 2 second wonder and for 6 years he got off and I didn't. I was so frustrated and he wouldn't seek help because it bothered him more to tell a doctor in confidence what his problem was than it bothered him that he was worthless in bed with his wife!





I wish I'd divorced him a lot earlier and I was way too forgiving.





Best wishes,





Sue
Reply:I don't think it's him!
Reply:Why do people automatically assume the worst? One, the man may be finding out why he still loves you. I mean flirting with people is not really all that bad when you think about it, my bf does it all the time, and so do I, but neither of us would ever cheat on the other, it is just fun to imagine, and then we try think about what it would be like without the other and it just cannot even be imagined. I mean 8 years, c'mon, you have been married 27 years, which I would guess to mean you both are around 50. At this time men are in serious dangerous water, erectile dysfunction is a serious problem and should be monitored by a doctor, there is nothing to be ashamed about it happens to a lot of people. Maybe he feels since he is not the same man you married then he is not a man anymore, just remind him that he is and there is nothing in this world that could ever change that. Him flirting around may be his way of trying to find a cure, and like most men, taking something to make them feel manly again just will NOT cut it. Get some information about it and show him that it is not all that uncommon and many men are faced with the same as him. I applaud you for sticking by him in this tough time. Just before you jump to conclusions, try to see his side of the situation. I mean that really is ALOT for any man to deal with.
Reply:Personally...I think he's sleeping around! give me a break why does he take Viagra? if you haven't had sex in 8 years???


Sorry I'm so not buying that. And I don't understand why you let him flirt and wink? that's so disrespectful to you? You need to have a serious talk with him and get to the bottom of his behavior issues.
Reply:I think that he is just tired of you. If I were you I would leave him ASAP and find someone that wants you.
Reply:He is full of it.
Reply:maybe he is doing what has crossed ur mind a dozen times. u decide what u want to do with ur marriage for as long as 27 years go. but i wish u the best because i don't know how u went that long in the first place. if u believe in GOD, than u need to take it to him in prayer. BE BLESSED.
Reply:he may be making up for ED
Reply:something is not right here....Is he intimate with you in other ways? If not, I'd be sitting down and having a serious talk with him.
Reply:You been married 27 years and eight years without sex… believe it or not I've known some other couples in the same situation. You're not necessarily alone. Are those other guys cheating ….No they have a serious loss of libido.





One guy did smoke pot… a lot…. that's known to take the wood right out of your woody, with heavy continuous use. Others did not do anything that should stop them. But sex is a very visual thing and men are extremely visual…. that would be why the porn industry is so huge. The fact that he's e-mailing old girlfriends may just be his attempt to get back what he lost. He may think that this loose association with them might bring back the much higher libido he had…. not likely that's going to work. While he'd like this circus to go on he’s just not going to be able to get the tent pole up





The first spark in a guy is visual…. so the fact that he is flirting with other girls shows he still has interest and has not switched to the other side. I think some of the people that jumped to the conclusion, up here, say he's cheating …..has missed some huge facts. You been married 27 years, he's older than that obviously, at his age is libido's going to decline anyway.





Men at this age have been wrestling with ways to try to keep up… literally….. with their partners. Viagra and other medications in the same chemical arena like Levitra and Cialis have worked for millions of men … certainly some without their partners knowing they take it. But all require one thing ….desire. You can take any one of these pills and not get an erection at all. Essentially it provides the chemical necessary to “maintain” an erection. So if you take the medication and have a lot of desire…. you can hammer a nail into a 2 x 4.





Viagra was actually discovered completely by accident…. they were trying to make a heart medication but found out the test individuals were complaining of a unique side effect.





It sounds like the problem with your husband is what affects many …..the lack of desire. Unfortunately he sounds a bit too macho and a bit too proud to go to Viagra and try it. It would probably help.





There are like 30 new drugs being developed for ED. one interesting you might want to keep your eye on is Code name TP 141…. the pharmacy name will be Bremelanotide. This drug still has years of testing before being available… the researcher on this one was trying to find a medication that would give you a tan….. unfortunately he got a hard on instead. But get this…. it seems to actually create desire !! It's being tested for men and women and having a lot of success. It's being tested with Viagra at the same time…. and it's not a pill but a nasal spray….. Wow….





So desire drugs are coming… and for both sexes.








Summary ..I don't think he's cheating I think he's out of juice. Give him a little pressure that you really what him to try some of these ED medications… see a doctor… don't be ashamed. If that doesn't work…. you might want to check out the guy you got mowing the lawn, sweaty, hot, in his 20s…… I'm sure he would deftly rise to the occasion





Mark


Book Author - GirlsTellAll
Reply:hes getting it elsewhere! divorce!
Reply:I think he's lying and he's bored. Just being honest...sorry
Reply:Sounds fishy to me!
Reply:He is not love with u. that is the reason he is not showing interest with u for sex. better to find a gud soul
Reply:You have'nt had sex in 8 years! (poor baby!)
Reply:It sounds like he's may just be trying to keep up the appearance of being a normal sexually active male, when he isn't. He's talking the talk, but not walking the walk. If I were you, I would get him some Viagra, and mix it up in something so he doesn't know he's taken it. Then he'll be real "happy" when he finds he's gotten some excitement back.
Reply:well at least u know if he cheats on u then u know it wont last long..lol sorry couldnt help it. but seriosly its not right that he flirts with other ppl omg u havent had sex in 8 yrs and ur still around and havent cheated..no way.
Reply:This is a bad situation. I am sorry to tell you, but it sounds as though this man is cheating. Men have a fairly constant desire which I'm sure would still be presten even with E.D. 8 years without is just not possible without something major being wrong.
Reply:he sounds like a jerk.. if he won't keep up his end then at least he should allow you to have a special friend.
Reply:I would talk with him about it in a nice manner. Maybe there is something that has changed which you could ask him about which could be changed to again stimulate him so he doesnt feel the need to go outside of the marriage for stimuli. Maybe a fresh hair style, makeover etc could work, not to say he does not need to do his part but eight years, thats pretty bad and I don't believe the libido thing at all.
Reply:8 years with out sex time to have a affair .. some thing is wrong
Reply:Nancy, I just don't know what to say..you floored me with your question. Your husband's flirting is proably trying to convince he's still a "man", but I can understand why this hurts you so terribly. Can you talk to him?





He needs to realize that you need that time and attention that he's giving these women. Doing without sex is one thing, but having to watch him flirt outragously with others is another. Does he show you any affection? Kissing, cuddling, holding your hand-or is it nothing. I would be jealous too, and so hurt.





Will he go to the doctor? Or his problem not a talkable subject. Counseling is needed, if he doesn't see how he's hurting you. I am so very sorry, after 27 years. I wish I could give you a hug. Please try to talk to him, and make him realize what he is doing to you and your marriage. Ask him "how would you feel if I did the things you were doing". I bet he wouldn't like it.





Nancy, please take care, and God only knows I wish I had the right answer for you. A magic cure....Praying for sure..
Reply:He has a girlfriend. Wise up!
Reply:Does he have any medical conditions or does he take any medications that my cause erectile disfunction? If not, why have you waited around for 8 years? Sounds like he may be getting it somewhere else.
Reply:Your husband sounds like a player to me. You have the right to be suspicious. But if he is cheating don't divorce him or kill him or anything, just out live him. Start eating healthy, go to the gym, get yourself all fixed up and go out and party like you were in your 20s. And rub it all in your husbands face. Also maybe you could e-mail your "ex boy friends" just set up different e-mail accounts and e-mail yourself ; )


Msn winks????????

once i have downloaded a msn wink where do i have to save it to enable me to use it?

Msn winks????????
Can you get them free?
Reply:Read.
Reply:not sure what you are saying


but click where it is winking %26amp; that will bring it up on the screen %26amp; then you sign in %26amp; winking can be saying someone is trying to talk to you as well


thats what happens on mine in australia


hope i helped in some way
Reply:it automatically saves on mine


Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Poll: Winks? Or both eyelashes batting at the same time?

flirt, flirt, flirt..

Poll: Winks? Or both eyelashes batting at the same time?
Winks
Reply:winks
Reply:Winks.


That's if you can wink with one eye.

classmates

If a girl whom I just met winks at me, does it mean anything? I am 25 and the girl is 24.?

It could mean she likes you....or...she could have a tick in her eye.

If a girl whom I just met winks at me, does it mean anything? I am 25 and the girl is 24.?
A fruit fly was in her eye.
Reply:yes, it means that she thinks you are cute and worthy of her time....
Reply:its called flirting.





nice isn't it?
Reply:she is flirting with you Hun lol you need to learn about how girls flirt cus if you didn't get that hint you are in some deep trouble here bud lol





go and say "hey you wanna go fro a bite to eat sometime my treat"





im betting she will take you up on your offer
Reply:lol are you the shy type? it's possible she has a thing for you talk to her won't hurt. i'd wink at ya anytime ;)
Reply:a warm and friendly gesture with a touch of flirtation...how can you be 25 and still wondering what grown people "mean" by things...you should have gotten over that stage by the end of high school!
Reply:She may like you or she may have just got something in her eye. You should ask her.
Reply:she might want to date u
Reply:She has an eye infection.
Reply:Perhaps she has a styx or an eye twitch? :)





Seriously, it's posssible that it does mean something, but if even "a kiss is just a kiss, a smile is just a smile," as the old song lyrices go, then a wink may be just a wink. If you're attracted to this girl, it might be worth getting to know her better to find out... :)
Reply:Damn you horny bastard, did you ever think maybe she had something in her eye?





dv
Reply:either she has something in her eye, she's winking at the guy behind you, she got a stray thought with the other hemisphere of her brain, she couldn't wave because she's paralyzed in the neck and arms, She's a tease, She likes you or she wants your body. No one can know the answer but her. Ask her out.
Reply:wink at you? lol, id say she likes you
Reply:She just has allergies.
Reply:Either she likes you or has something in her eye.
Reply:maybe she thinks you are attractive and likes you---you are an adult---ask her :)
Reply:Most people our age know that a wink is flirtation. Therefore-she is flirting with you.
Reply:Hmm.. maybe you just need to take a risk and go up to her and start talking to her and than when you feel comfortable with her than ask her if the "wink" meant anything.
Reply:shes obviously into you..make a move and see what happens!
Reply:Stop spitting when you talk.
Reply:not really just wink back and let her make the first move
Reply:Definately nothing depending on the way she winked.
Reply:It possibly could but some people are just winkers. They even wink at their pets.


What is the meant when 1 person winks an eye an other person ??

I only use winks when I'm letting someone in on a joke or something funny...

What is the meant when 1 person winks an eye an other person ??
It can mean that they are "playing"...the game.





Joking around....just having fun!





Why do you ask?
Reply:It can have quite a variety of meanings.


Probably most often, it means that there is a 3rd person or more, in the setting and the one winking at you is 'having the others on' [meaning he is fooling them], but he is not meaning to fool you.


Other times, if he is doing most of the listening in the conversation, it means that someone else, who is doing most of the speaking, is speaking just 'poppycock', or doesn't know what he is talking about.





But it can mean many other things, also.


It all depends on the precise setting one is in.


Sometimes, one will simply wink another as he is just passing by.


In that case, it is simply a token of good will - a friendly gesture.





Other times, if two people don't know each other and one is a girl and the other a guy, one might wink at the other as a sign of 'sexual interest'.





So, it can have many meanings, depending on the precise setting.
Reply:interest?!..........








bow.......................
Reply:It can mean many things, from a shared secret to attraction to an indication that you are joking.
Reply:hmm...it means that it winked an eye... ;)
Reply:Well, if he only has one eye, than I'd say he's just blinking.





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Reply:it could mean a plethora of things
Reply:or they just r bein nice.


kelsey q.


This new guy in the office always *winks* at me. What's wrong with him?

Everytime I look at him, he always smiles and winks at me. He does it all the time. He never talks to me and never does any other kind of expressions. He just winks, basically.





Is there anything wrong with his eyes or something?





I mean really.., I find it a little bit annoying. He's cute though.





Btw, I just smile a little cuz i find him weird.


Isn't he?

This new guy in the office always *winks* at me. What's wrong with him?
He likes you duh.
Reply:he's just trying to flirt with you the wrong way!
Reply:He has crap in his eye
Reply:he's not weird that just means he likes you and maybe he's too shy to talk to you
Reply:ya liddle slyboots
Reply:He probably finds you sexually attractive. Have you ever spoken to him? Does he ever start conversations with him? If you don't want to date him ignore him. Stop smiling at him and he'll probably go away.
Reply:thunder_kok says wink wink
Reply:lol...lol...lol... no ...hes not wierd... hes planning his game like the lead wolf in the wolf pack... You r his prey .. he will eat you.... he eats anything.... hes not choosy!!! lol...lol...lol... Then he shares his meal w/ the pack in the still of the night around the campfire!! Did u really do that?? Haven't you ever heard .. don't mess w co workers?
Reply:Maybe he saw your question about which eye you wink with and is showing you his preference.
Reply:Nothing's wrong. He just likes you and is probably too afraid to approach you, yet.
Reply:He sounds sweet, but watch out because HE'S MARRIED!





Cheers
Reply:probably doesnt know how to start a conversation with him. give the a chance instead of thinking he's weird, ask him to lunch
Reply:Mayb u'r 2attractive 2him. He likes u that y he's flirting with u.
Reply:He probably likes you but is being subtle about it. Not all guys are going to throw themselves at a woman, even one as attractive as you are. If you find him attractive, flirt back.
Reply:I think it's kind of weird that he hasn't talked to you or anything. Guys who wink are usually quite forward and aren't normally apprehensive when it comes to talking to people they are attracted to.





If you find his constant winking uncomfortable or somewhat sleazy, just stop smiling. If you're attracted to his cuteness, keep up the smiling, and he'll make a move if he's really interested.





PS: there is a possibility that something could be wrong with his eye and he's just smiling, but i doubt it.
Reply:Winking at coworkers is a very obnoxious habit. Either stop smiling back so he gets the message, or be more upfront and suggest that his winking all the time makes you wonder what he means by it.
Reply:No you are a real cute girl and he is jest letting you know that he likes you
Reply:That's sorta weird. I dunno. I try to keep my flirting around the office at a minimum.





I've yet to meet a woman at work who's worth losing my job over. It's just sorta tactless.





And yeah... if you're gonna do the winky thing, at least have the balls to say something.
Reply:well just maybe it could be that he likes you
Reply:he wants u girl
Reply:He is so captured by your amazing beauty, you leave him speechless!!
Reply:You smile at him when he winks... you do the math.
Reply:yeah that does sounds a bit odd. you'd think he would spoken to you by now. Perhaps, he has a strange sense of humor!
Reply:maybe he does have a problem, but, maybe hes just really into you, he could really think that you are the most beautiful women he's ever met!
Reply:he likes u jaan %26amp; i think he is asian %26amp; nice guy.
Reply:I think......................................
Reply:He's being friendly, maybe he likes you.





On another note, you say he winks every time he looks at you and then you ask if there's something wrong with his eye. Are you trying to be cute or are you just that dumb?
Reply:he could have something stuck in his eye or he could be married and his wife connects a small camera to his clothes and one of those collars that they use to train dogs so everytime he smiles at you she's at home waiting to zap him. (the winking is just an after effect of the zap). LOL. on a serious note that just might be his thing that he does which is weird but i think it's harmless. strike up small conversation with him and see if he still winks at you later on
Reply:hes a retard
Reply:i think he has a crush on you tha's why is winking at you
Reply:Maybe the sun shines in his window just right to hit his eye. Just the one eye.





Maybe everytime you walk by his office you create a little breeze and blow dust into his eye..


Is the term 20 winks or 40 winks? Will you use it in a sentence...please?

The term is 40 winks - and it means a short nap.





Like : I need to get 40 winks before I go out tonight.

Is the term 20 winks or 40 winks? Will you use it in a sentence...please?
Get 20 winks. Naps aren't for everybody, but they might help recharge older people who aren't sleeping as soundly as they used to, Dr. Ricer says. Younger people with very hectic schedules and short nights also might consider taking naps. If you do decide to take naps, try to take them at the same time each day and for no more than an hour.
Reply:There are 2 ways of looking at everything, and there are 3 sides to every argument: your side, my side, and the right side.


I once had a 2-hour marathon with my neighborhood friend playing Tiddly-Winks and she finally won the match 41 to 40 winks.
Reply:I had a little drink about an hour ago and me thinks I'll take twenty winks. However, forty winks are fine with wine..... Sorry, Kayboff. That was at the bottom of the barrel.
Reply:Kay the term is 40 winks. An example would be:





I am feeling quite sleepy and plan on taking 40 winks.





Hope this helps. CJ
Reply:40 winks. I was tired, so I got 40 winks in the afternoon to give me energy for the rest of the day.
Reply:I am tired. I think I will go lay down and have forty winks.





Forty winks is a short sleep.
Reply:I wanted to take a nap but instead of catching 40 winks, I caught 39, so I could save the other one wink for Y/A.


See? ----%26gt; ;)
Reply:It's 40 winks, it means to sleep for a short time.





"I am so tired, I need to catch 40 winks before I make the dinner."
Reply:" i think i'll catch 40 winks" if it were 20 winks, you'd be sleeping with one eye open.
Reply:I didn't even get 40 winks the other night because I stayed up too late and got up too early.
Reply:Sometimes I took only half a nap or 20 winks.
Reply:After digging the garden I took 40 winks.
Reply:Forty winks, as in 'He slept forty winks.'
Reply:I am so sleepy. I'm going to crawl in bed and catch 40 winks.
Reply:I think I'll catch 40 winks before we go around again!!!
Reply:I need to get my 40 winks to keep my beauty!
Reply:i feel sleepy since i did not compete my nap -- only slept 20 winks so it was a half a nap!!!
Reply:just let me get 20winks and i'll b ready to go again

find friends

If a guy you like winks at you what is he trying to tell you?

likes you also?

If a guy you like winks at you what is he trying to tell you?
yes
Reply:guys like anything that breathes, if he thinks he can get you that way, well, looks like he's already got your attention..he knows what to do next and that's wait for you to commit yourself..
Reply:duh?! he likes u but he no's u like him!
Reply:Put a smile on your face and find out


Winks not working on im ?

yahoo normal emotions in messenger are ok but when i got to use the winks or audibles it says i am not signed in when obviously i am

Winks not working on im ?
The system is full of glitches, yahoo is working on the problem.!!!
Reply:Thanks people. Report Abuse



Who is that really pretty girl in miley cyrus's 7 things music video at 0:17 Blonde hair winks at end!?

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Hr0Wv5DJhu...


Please help me find her name bright blonde hair round about 0:17 and 3:32 at the end she winks

Who is that really pretty girl in miley cyrus's 7 things music video at 0:17 Blonde hair winks at end!?
Looks like one of the olsen twins


Would u like to join me in a game of tiddly winks?

It's strip tease tidly winks ahahaahaa.

Would u like to join me in a game of tiddly winks?
ok but i want a pink tiddly wink im only in my bra and panties shall i get more layers on?
Reply:sounds fun ... (I can tiddly while you winks ...)
Reply:Yes if you tiddle and I wink.
Reply:yes while we are waiting for the men in white coat
Reply:WHY NOT
Reply:are you a champ already,i feel i am letting my self in for a trashing
Reply:yes of course i will u r really nice and kind
Reply:ugh thanks but no thanks.Is that game stilll around.
Reply:How bored are you today
Reply:IM WASHING THE CAR


SORRY.
Reply:You haven't got round to handing yourself over to God yet then?!?


Good effort though!!





=D
Reply:uhhh nope........how about mumblypeg, you bring your own ice picks and knives though...........

alexa

Girls....when a guy winks at you....?

Lets say you were walking in the mall and you see a guy that you find attractive and catch his eye.


He looks at you briefly, gives a smirk and a flirty wink which kinda says "I saw you perving at me lol"


but he carries on his way.





What would you be thinking?


Would you do anything?

Girls....when a guy winks at you....?
I would think that he finds me cute. Then, that's that.
Reply:I would think -- That random stranger thought I was cute.


So, i'd be flattered. Wouldn't think too much about it after the incident.
Reply:i'd think that i hope he found me cute but nothing beond that
Reply:i guess he would think i'm attractive.. thats all!


i wouldn't think about it too much after that..


If a guy winks at you with a big smile?

If a guy winks at you after a conversation. It's a really big smile and wink. Does he find you cute?

If a guy winks at you with a big smile?
It's a come on....yes, he's attracted to you!
Reply:yep
Reply:I LOVE when they do that1
Reply:Yes, or he has something in his eye.
Reply:i hope not
Reply:don't sure what ur situation is


u know him or u don't know him at all


well, he is polite and he may show some interest in u
Reply:most of the time that's the case


When a guy winks at you is it hitting on you or flirting?

Maybe he just has something in his eye or his contact is bothering him. Haha jk, I couldn't help it :D

When a guy winks at you is it hitting on you or flirting?
Well it may be a bit of both. He is doing that to see how you will respond, so I would say flirting. Sometimes it may mean something else, really need to know the context of the situation, how well you all know each other. So it could mean several things. Overall I would say flirting and wanting to see how you would react, you know to see if you were interested.
Reply:I say that he likes what he see, he telling you something so that is flirting.
Reply:i think thats more flirting
Reply:who know no one can read the mind of a boy
Reply:flirting honey harmless flirting hitting on you involves conversation


 

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