Should I take my two teenagers out of my match.com profile? I hardly get any winks and I'm very pretty...

NO you SHOULD NOT take them off.


Why?


If you do get any "winks" you'll end up telling them anyways about your children...


So you may as well be upfront and honest at the beginning.


This way you'll meet the men you want. You don't want to meet someone who doesn't want to have anything to do with children. Correct.


Getting everything out in the open at the begining is the best thing for any relationship.


Good luck in the hunt.


Remember be true to yourself and your children.

Should I take my two teenagers out of my match.com profile? I hardly get any winks and I'm very pretty...
do what you think is best
Reply:so do you plan to remove the two teenagers from your life after you meet some guy? tell the truth. guys hate false advertising.
Reply:Leave them in there. If people don't want to talk to you because of that, then it's a waste of your time. You'll find someone who accepts you AND your children..until then, just enjoy being single.
Reply:I think you should be as honest as you can. If you are interested in a serious relationship then potential suitors will just think you are playing games when they find out you have two teenagers.
Reply:No, because you should be completely honest. You shouldn't try 2 get a guy or anything by lieing. That's wrong. You want 2 go into a relationship very honest..no lies. You want the guy to like/love you for who you are, not who you're tryin to be to please him.
Reply:leave them in there, if you take them out, a guy might assume that you don't have kids then get a nasty surprise when he finds out that you do, and if the guy doesn't like your kids then he's not the right guy for you
Reply:No, the reason that you would put YOUR children in your profile is because you're proud of them. Those kids must mean a lot to you to have you put them in your profile. Don't take it rough the guys aren't liking the idea. When it comes to the right person, that person will love you and be there for you AND your kids because you put them in plain view that you have them. If you took them out, that would be hiding the true you, and the guys that wink at you after you do, will most likely run scared if you get to know them and then you tell them about your children. Don't rough it up though. You'll find someone to be with who will truly love you for you and your kids. Best of luck love.
Reply:no.





But, if you are young enough looking...say they are your kids, because they may think something else.
Reply:No you should not. If you are proud to be a mother, then any prospective mate should respect that!
Reply:Not on match .com, but consider this a WINK ;-)from a single guy with two daughters...
Reply:NO WAY! You don't want anyone that doesn't want anything to do with your kids. They will be around forever, and the three of you come as a package, can't be broken up. Good luck