My older, male, attractive teacher winks at me?

he just doesn't seem like the winking type either! but whenever i go into the classroom, he just smiles and winks. what makes it worse is that he's really attractive, maybe 26 or 27 years old, and he used to play pro soccer before he hurt his ankle. i always smile back, because i guess it's just the polite thing to do. is that bad? would that be considered flirting? idk what to do. i'm a freshman in highschool. i guess i'd kindof be considered the "hot quiet" girl to be completely honest.

My older, male, attractive teacher winks at me?
It's inappropriate for him to do that. Please be careful. He is looking for a reaction from you. I really would mention it to your parents at this point so that they can be on guard and let them decide whether they should report it to the school.





I understand your point about smiling back, but be assured, if you encourage him, he will take it further. He should not be winking at you....he knows that. If he ever ever ever tries to take it any further, say he tries to touch you, you make sure you let him know it is clearly wrong and report it to your parents and the school immediately.
Reply:ewww! What your like 14 or something. Some teachers wink in the non-flirting way, but every time you walk into class, that's a little gross. What a perv. Stick with your own age, don't fall for it, it's not worth it. Older guys may seems cool now, but just wait, they get even older and creepier.
Reply:just dont wink back or smile at him, he already probly thinks ur flirting with him
Reply:this is your fold maybe..get away from him...
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Reply:|Don't do anyuthing stupid. You would be asking for trouble if you responded to him.
Reply:Do the right thing and dont do anything about his actions. Unless of course you want to get him in trouble! I hope thats not the case.........
Reply:If it bugs you (and it sounds like it does), tell him politely to stop. If that doesn't work, get his superiors involved.
Reply:you shouldnt incourage him he might get the wrong idea but if you like him and if he asks you out say yes and make sure e dosnt get what he wants
Reply:He winks at yuo because you smile back. If you didn't smile back he wouldn't bother.
Reply:do something especially naughty like forget your hw, several times, and when he asks you to stay after class, wait for the "bow-chika-bow-oww" soundtrack cue before you start to deepthroat him





hth!








also, the fact that you posted this in "singles and dating" is troubling -- or, at least, a giveaway as to what you're truly after.
Reply:I doubt it is anything. He is probably just being a nice teacher. Not to burst your bubble, but he probably does it to everyone. I have had men wink at me and there be no meaning behind it what so ever.